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Jose Cabrera's avatar

I retire on Thursday (city job in NYC). Looking forward to this next chapter in my life.

T. Miller's avatar

Well. It's been a bastard of a year so far, to be honest. Six weeks ago, my stepfather passed after a very short battle with pancreatic cancer. Not be outdone, my youngest sister passed away thirteen days later. Fentanyl. I mention that because it's such a goddamn plague in this country and I wish we could end this nightmare. My poor mother is putting on a brave face, but losing your husband and youngest child in less than two weeks is just ridiculous. My sister had a closet full demons and a knack for burning bridges, so it had been a few years since I last spoke to her, but she is still my sister. A couple weeks ago, my niece, her oldest daughter, and I drove to the East St. Louis area to clean out the room she died in and a storage locker she had, and to make sure everything was square with the roommate who found her body. It was freaking surreal. It took us two days of sifting through what to take, toss and/or donate. Emotionally, it's hit me differently then I thought it would, and yes, I am talking to someone about it. Sorry. Not trying to bring everybody down. Venting this actually helps and you did ask, Brian (BTW thanks for another week of this, sir, as I truly look forward to it and the awesome people here).

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